I’ve seen the occasional post on here saying someone is missing. You have to be really careful about these posts. Often times, abusers will post a missing person report on here so they can find their victim. Here are some red flags to differentiate abusers posts and actual missing people posts.
They tell you to not approach the person if you see them. This is a huge red flag. If someone was kidnaped they probably would love to see someone that can help them come home.
They claim the person is not in their right mind. While this may be true for actual missing people, it is also a red flag if it is accompanied by “Do not approach them or tell them you can get them home”
They say not to call 911 and provide their personal phone number instead. Kinda self explanatory. If it is a real missing person call 911.
They didn’t file a missing person report with the police. Take a quick google search and if there is no actual report, be cautious as hell.
Abusers will try to find their victims again through claiming they went missing when in reality, the victim escaped. Be cautious.
i’ve made posts before but now it’s very serious and the situation has escalated beyond my control. as you may know, my boyfriend has been struggling with finishing paying off the school bill has had for 3 years or so now. however, due to the severe abuse he’s received from his family, he isn’t able to get a job at this moment in time. this means that i’ve been making payments the best i can on his school bill, but i can’t keep up with the accumulating late fees every month. its nearly $300 worth of late fees now and its only getting worse.
i hate asking but i need help finishing off this payment. anything will work whether its $1 or just a reblog for attention. once again im sorry i have to ask this of so many of you but his account will be terminated if i cant finish off these payments soon and he will lose any chance he has of getting credit for the schooling he finished.
r/edkatherine is back on twitter and making naruto art just a forewarning
since not everyone knows, r/edkatherine is an artist who’s a radfem/terf and has made many drawings and comics depicting trans women as evil men just preying on cis lesbians, basically called all trans women rapists, and claims that trans men are confused women who just “refuse to claim their womenhood”. has also drawn violent depictions against trans people, the most well known being a witch’s cauldron boiling trans people. yea
Anonymous asked: theres a problem with bi women using butch/femme because you cant just magically stop being femme/butch unless you've decided that they dont fit/switch for the other because it fits more. they're terms that inherently mean the exclusion of men through their definition and you cant use them temporarily then stop then use them again and so on. it's much better and comfortable to allow bi women to use their own terms as they have more significance and culture to them than lesbian terms
i have more energy today so to amend my answer, saying the terms inherently mean the exclusion of men by definition is correct and i agree
but the main argument on the other side is that historically they were applied to, used by, and created by both lesbian and bisexual wlw
so personally i dont feel like its up to me to tell a bisexual person that they cant use the term beyond saying it should only be used to decribe their relationships with women. besides that, as a femme lesbian who previously (mistakenly) identified as bisexual i would rather let people experiment with the terms and hopefully find themselves sooner
